I was finally able to “see” Joey through our on-line book club. We are meeting three times a week with a few other kindergarten students to read silly books and just immerse ourselves in the joy that silly books bring.
When Joey logged on for our initial session I felt tears well up in my eyes. Although I’d be missing him, I hadn’t realized just how much I had missed him. His giant smile radiated through the computer, and his laughter while we read the books was contagious.
Of course, the computer isn’t the same, and it feels so distant. Previously, I’ve written about how important wait time, and timing in general is when I am working with Joey. Wait time online feels even harder to do (particularly in a group of other active kindergarten students). Joey will look like he has something to say, and in person I can almost feel his intentionality and can tell that he is working hard to get out a message or that he is waiting on me to move on with our work. That’s harder on the computer, and I find myself not waiting long enough to allow him to fully get his ideas across.